Dear old me,
I hope this letter finds you thriving in the whirlwind of teen life. I remember how you were always so friendly and talkative? It was one of your greatest strengths, bringing you so many friends and filling your days with laughter. But I understand, sometimes it feels like people might not always take you seriously because of it and how that hurted your self-esteem. In this letter, I would like to guide you how to handle these situations with grace.
First off, being friendly is a wonderful gift. It’s what draws people to you and makes you a joy to be around. Don’t ever lose that spark. Keep sharing your thoughts and feelings authentically. People appreciate honesty and vulnerability—it’s what deepens friendships and builds trust.
You have a big heart and love to chat, but remember, listening is just as important as talking. When you listen attentively, you show others that you value them and their stories. It’s a superpower that strengthens your relationships. Being friendly doesn’t mean you have to blend into the background. Speak up confidently when you have something to say. Your opinions and ideas matter and expressing them shows others your strength and conviction.
Not everyone is as open as you are, and that’s okay. Always respect people’s privacy and boundaries. Knowing when to share and when to hold back shows maturity and earns you respect. Believe me when I say this, you are beautifully unique, with a personality that lights up any room. Don’t ever feel like you need to change to fit in. Celebrate what makes you different—it’s what makes you extraordinary.
Being a teenager is about discovering who you are and who you want to become, and I know it’s difficult to be than to say. Keep being friendly, keep being open-hearted, but also remember to honour your voice and your individuality. Every connection you make and every conversation you have shapes your journey. Embrace it all with joy and authenticity. I wish this could help you until next time.
With much love,
Your to be me.
